When I speak to parents who are adopting, hiring a photographer has rarely been a top priority. But after the fact, they realize how important it actually was. Unfortunately, it’s too late. They can’t go back and redo the day. Some people feel it’s enough to let a court clerk or your best friend’s sister take a few iPhone pics. Adoption day is a day of extreme emotion. It’s a beautiful day that you’ve probably waited a long time to get to and will fly by so quickly. It will be one of the most important and meaningful days of your family’s life.
Let’s run through this day for a minute. Whether you’re adopting in a courthouse or meeting your child for the first time in a hospital or airport, emotions are probably at their highest. On that day everyone is rushing to put on their perfectly planned outfits. They’re inhaling breakfast or lunch to get to their destination on time. Once you’re there, your lawyer needs to talk to you and explain the process. If you’re in court, bailiffs, lawyers, and case managers are all pulling you in deferent directions as you welcome your support team who will be cheering you on. If you’re in the hospital, you have the grief of baby’s birth mom and you have to balance that with the extreme excitement you’re simultaneously feeling.
At a court adoption you’ll be smiling ear to ear as words and paperwork are flying all around and you hope to remember it all. When it’s finally your turn to enter the room, the judge greets you with a huge smile. She’s ready to bang that gabble and bring together a new family. But she has a lot of questions to document why you will be a great family for your child. Your friends sit with excitement and if you’re lucky the judge will ask a few of them why they feel you are a great home for your baby. They start sharing stories and out come the tears. Tissues are passed around as you are filled with gratitude. You were chosen to walk this path. Whether you struggled with infertility or decided early on that you wanted to adopt, being here brings a sense of peace that this is exactly where you should be. You realize now that every single struggle worth it and your entire life has brought you the pieces to complete this puzzle.
At a hospital adoption, you wait in excitement as the time comes to finally hold your baby. This may or may not be a moment where birth mom wants to document but giving her the option may help her heal in the months to come.
Now, I’ll ask you this question. Will a court clerk or a friend’s Iphone be able to capture this for you in such a way that you will really feel what went on that day? Will a few iPhone pictures be enough to help you remember every detail of this day? And then what? Will you keep them in the cloud to see them a couple of times and then forget about them? Below are a couple of examples of my own adoption. One is obviously an Iphone pic from one of my friends and the other is an image from the professional photographer there that day. I’d love to hear what you prefer.
What can a professional photographer do for you? They will be able to capture moments you didn’t think were important. They will give you and your friends the freedom of soaking up every second of this emotional day. They will create a beautiful album that you and your family will enjoy forever. And hiring an adoption photographer takes it a step further. As an adoption photographer, I know what moments are most precious and what just can’t be missed. I know how close I can get to you while you’re in the courtroom or in the hospital room as you hold your baby for the first time.
I will capture every emotion and every detail you’ve worked so hard to coordinate. Those special t-shirts you had made or that onesie that has that bible verse that got you through this time, will be front and center. Your family and friends’ reactions are just as important. They are your village. Capturing the emotions of everyone in the courtroom is something I fully understand. As a mom who adopted two little girls from foster care, I understand the joy that fills the courtroom on that day. Don’t let the day pass without thinking of such an important detail. Adoption day is just one day and you will not be able to genuinely recreate it. Adoption day photography should not be last on your list. It should be one of the first things you decide on. It is important. If you’re adopting in Miami and need a photographer who understands the ins and outs of adoptions, I’m your girl. I want to make sure you have this important day documented in a clear, beautiful, and special way so you and your family can enjoy it forever. Click here to send me a message if you have any questions or are ready to get started.